My secret affair

I got married this summer, but had a feeling that it wasn't what I wanted. I did it anyway. Now, I am having an affair with my ex-boyfriend who I am still in love with.
I sneek over to his house as often as I can to see him.
I would get divorced but I still have feelings for my husband and we have a daughter.
Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?
I don't know what to do...

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14 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think you first have to figure out what you want. You don't get to have a happy healthy marriage, get your kicks on the side, and live guilt free. This is the real world and not a TV show. Are you sure your ex is really still in the picture because he cares about you and wants to be with you, or do you think he just likes the sex? Tell him your leaving your current husband to be with him, and see how he reacts. If you do really love your husband, it's not fair what your doing. You should either stop it, and get yourself to therapy (with hubby) to work honestly on being with just your husband, or should leave him so he can find someone that is willing to treat him better. Good luck, and no matter what you do, I think therapy would benefit by helping you figure out what you want and why you are chosing destructive paths, because this isn't healty for anyone involved.

Anonymous said...

You should get divorced and the father should get custody

Anonymous said...

this can lead to nothing good

Anonymous said...

are u like a hoe r sumthin i cant believe u cheat on ur husband...he is probably cheatin on u 2 u no u should look into that,or he probably already knows ...and if u feel guilty have a 3 way wit him and another girl!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ahh, No.

And you are a hoe-bag

Anonymous said...

you can't have both, give one of them up. but please, give up the one you DONT have a kid with. Think about how much your kid will hate you for leaving him/her. Do you really want to give your child that much grief and insecurity because you think an affair is fun? Work on making your marriage fun. Read a book.

Anonymous said...

Slut!

Anonymous said...

you have a kid with your husband. if this gets out it will mess up your life and your childs. its not fair on him/her, break up with your ex.

Anonymous said...

jesus, fuck what you want or feel. you want to fuck your child's life up because your a stupid bitch who wants to fucking slut it up?
excuse the language, but stupid bitches like yourself just make me infuriated. if my mother ever did something like this to me i would hate that bitch for the rest of my fucking life. i hope you realize how badly you could fuck up your child's life before its to late.

Anonymous said...

what the fuck are you doing? whoring around is going to solve everything isnt it? decided what you want, and tell them both then go home cook your man a nice dinner and give him head you slut

Anonymous said...

I stumbled on this blog by accident; just want to say you are in a bind girl, but only you can fix it. But you have to end with it the ex and concentrate on your husband for the sake of you and your family. From your blog it seems emotionally you’re not dealing with it well pretty soon it will start to effect all aspects of your life, family, friends and your work. Indecently ignore the self righteous monkeys with keyboards.

Anonymous said...

My mom did this and I don't hate her and it didn't fuck up my life. Im actually happy she did. My dad was an ass who verbally abused her.

MusikMom said...

You definitely have some "addiction" issues. I can almost guarantee that if you left your hubby for this other guy, the "thrill" would die out very quickly and you'd be out searching for the next rush.
You have a problem that needs to be fixed; unless you take care of it, you will repeat this pattern and ruin your relationships in the process. Best of luck!

The Stories You Cannot Tell said...

Is it possible to love two people at the same time? Sure. It all depends on how you define love.

Your marriage is the big issue. Sound to me like you shouldn't have said yes to be married, knowing full well you had unresolved issues with an X. That's a game where you will most likely end us the loser in the long run.

You have children to think of. Is this X worth her life and well-being? I think that is the question you need to answer. Everything you do should be for her now. Think before you act.


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