I sneek over to his house as often as I can to see him.
I would get divorced but I still have feelings for my husband and we have a daughter.
Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?
I don't know what to do...
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11 comments:
I think you first have to figure out what you want. You don't get to have a happy healthy marriage, get your kicks on the side, and live guilt free. This is the real world and not a TV show. Are you sure your ex is really still in the picture because he cares about you and wants to be with you, or do you think he just likes the sex? Tell him your leaving your current husband to be with him, and see how he reacts. If you do really love your husband, it's not fair what your doing. You should either stop it, and get yourself to therapy (with hubby) to work honestly on being with just your husband, or should leave him so he can find someone that is willing to treat him better. Good luck, and no matter what you do, I think therapy would benefit by helping you figure out what you want and why you are chosing destructive paths, because this isn't healty for anyone involved.
You should get divorced and the father should get custody
this can lead to nothing good
are u like a hoe r sumthin i cant believe u cheat on ur husband...he is probably cheatin on u 2 u no u should look into that,or he probably already knows ...and if u feel guilty have a 3 way wit him and another girl!!!!!
Ahh, No.
And you are a hoe-bag
you can't have both, give one of them up. but please, give up the one you DONT have a kid with. Think about how much your kid will hate you for leaving him/her. Do you really want to give your child that much grief and insecurity because you think an affair is fun? Work on making your marriage fun. Read a book.
Slut!
you have a kid with your husband. if this gets out it will mess up your life and your childs. its not fair on him/her, break up with your ex.
I stumbled on this blog by accident; just want to say you are in a bind girl, but only you can fix it. But you have to end with it the ex and concentrate on your husband for the sake of you and your family. From your blog it seems emotionally you’re not dealing with it well pretty soon it will start to effect all aspects of your life, family, friends and your work. Indecently ignore the self righteous monkeys with keyboards.
You definitely have some "addiction" issues. I can almost guarantee that if you left your hubby for this other guy, the "thrill" would die out very quickly and you'd be out searching for the next rush.
You have a problem that needs to be fixed; unless you take care of it, you will repeat this pattern and ruin your relationships in the process. Best of luck!
Is it possible to love two people at the same time? Sure. It all depends on how you define love.
Your marriage is the big issue. Sound to me like you shouldn't have said yes to be married, knowing full well you had unresolved issues with an X. That's a game where you will most likely end us the loser in the long run.
You have children to think of. Is this X worth her life and well-being? I think that is the question you need to answer. Everything you do should be for her now. Think before you act.
Cin.
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